Going to Prom in Lifestyle

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We have some tips to help you enjoy your Prom or Leavers Ball, without any unnecessary stress or worry.

What is prom?

The American tradition of prom has now taken over schools across Scotland and the United Kingdom. It's usually a formal dance or ceilidh, acting as a send off to students leaving high school

This tradition has grown over the years in popularity thanks to American TV programmes like Glee, Gossip Girl and 90210.

Prom is a great chance to get your glad rags on and dance the night away with your friends on before you leave high school and move on to work, further education, modern apprenticeship or something else. 

Prom season has become big business with prom goers often spending hundreds of pound on outfits, beauty treatments, limos, hotel suits and after parties.

Worrying about money?

Money can be a real source of worry for teenagers around prom time. There are a few things you can do to ease some financial stress:

  • Prom is all about having fun with your friends, not outspending them!
  • Instead of spending hundreds of pounds on a dress or a suit, why not rent? Don't write off vintage shops or charity shops you could find a beautiful classic for a fraction of the price.
  • Borrow clothes from older siblings or friends. Your big brother or sister might have a great outfit you could borrow or they may even have a pair of shoes or a bow-tie that will finish your outfit for no extra cost.
  • Instead of spending money in a beauty salon, why not have a pamper night with your friends and try out make-up and hair-styles for the day? 
  • Instead of going to an expensive restaurant before your dance, you could gather with your friends at your house and cook a big meal for them, with everyone chipping in for the ingredients.

Preparing is key, you don't have to spend a load of money to have fun!

Having a Date

Don't worry about not having a date to prom. Prom is a great night for your whole year to get together and celebrate the fact you all made it through high school. Just enjoy dancing around with your friends and posing for silly pictures.

If you do have a date or want to ask someone to go with you then that's great too, just go and have a great night. 

Under Pressure

Loads of popular films that feature high school proms will discuss sex and alcohol. However, it is important not to feel as though you're being pressured into this.

Some of your friends might be planning on drink alcohol, or organising an after party, but it is important to be aware of the effects of drinking alcohol and not giving into peer pressure if you're not comfortable with joining in.

Remember if you're under 18 it's illegal to buy or consume alcohol.

Just Enjoy Yourself

You might love every minute of your prom, or you might go home that night thinking what was all the fuss about. Either way, go with the intention of having fun with your friends and don't put any pressure on yourself.