How to Support Your Friends with their Exam Results in Learning
If you've done well or better than expected in your exams, you should feel proud, but it's important to be mindful of your friends who may not have done so well. If you notice a friend is feeling down about their results, there are a few things you can do to cheer them up.
1) Don’t mock or make nasty remarks
Even if you think it's just a joke, when your friend is feeling down, mocking comments can be hurtful and make them feel even more worried and upset. Put yourself in their shoes and think about how you would feel and how you would want your friends to support you.
2) Don’t rub your celebrations in your friend’s faces
It's completely normal to be happy and tell people about your achievements, but be aware of your friend’s feelings. If they're a good friend, they'll be happy for you, but try not to rub it in by talking to them about your result too much. Check out our list of things you shouldn't say to your friends on results day.
3) Be supportive of your friends’ next steps and offer encouragement
Help build their self-confidence and encourage them to think positively. The only real failure is to give up! Assure them that it isn't the end of the world and talk about what their options may be, moving forward. Check out our advice on what to do if you don't get the results you hoped for, so that you can help them out.
4) Give them time to talk about how they're feeling
Sometimes all a friend needs, is someone to listen. Just having the chance to talk about their exam results and get everything off of their chest, will make them feel more positive. Find out how you can improve your listening skills and be there for a friend in need.
5) If your friend is feeling down, get their mind off the results
Why not just spend time with your friend and try to take their mind of things by going to the cinema, going shopping, or out for some dinner? Remember to take your Young Scot card along, so you can enjoy loads of great discounts. Check out some other ideas of things you can do to take your friend's mind off their results.